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Queer Heritage · Llangollen, Denbighshire

The Ladies of Llangollen's Tomb

Two runaway Irish gentlewomen who slept in one bed for fifty years, and the diarist 'Gentleman Jack' who came to see whether it was 'platonic'.

StatusDocumented history
Date1780–1831; Anne Lister's visit 11–23 July 1822
The peopleLady Eleanor Butler (1739–1829), Sarah Ponsonby (1755–1831), Mary Carryl (servant), Anne Lister (1822 visitor)
The siteThree-sided monument to Eleanor Butler, Sarah Ponsonby and Mary Carryl in the churchyard of St Collen's Church, Llangollen
Coordinates52.97170, -3.16750 (confidence 4/5)

The story

two runaway Irishwomen, fifty years in one bed, and the diarist who came to check. The story: elopement from Ireland; Plas Newydd salon (Byron, Wordsworth, Wellington, Wedgwood as guests); Anne Lister's 1822 pilgrimage and coded doubt; Hester Thrale's "damned Sapphists" (a private remark cited by scholar Emma Donoghue). What survives: the triangular monument to Butler, Ponsonby and Carryl in St Collen's churchyard, and Plas Newydd itself (already in the main 100). Visiting: churchyard freely accessible; pair with Plas Newydd Llangollen.

More stories at this spot

  • Anne Lister visited in July 1822 and wrote she could not 'help thinking that surely it was not platonic'
  • Hester Thrale privately called them 'damned Sapphists'
  • All three women — the couple and their servant — lie under one triangular monument

Sources

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