Bohemian & Libertine · Ravenshead, Nottinghamshire
Newstead Abbey (Lord Byron)
The Gothic 'party palace' of 'mad, bad and dangerous to know' Lord Byron, backdrop to a rakish life of affairs; it was Lady Caroline Lamb, after their affair, who coined that immortal phrase. Note: rumours of a relationship with his half-sister Augusta are historically disputed and should be flagged as such.
The story
George Gordon, 6th Baron Byron, inherited Newstead Abbey — a ruined Augustinian priory turned family seat in Nottinghamshire — in 1798, aged ten. It was falling down and mortgaged to the hilt, and he could never afford to restore it; he made a few rooms habitable, hung velvet curtains, kept a wolf and other animals (a tame bear lived at Cambridge), and left the rest romantically ruinous.
The parties are real. In 1809 he gathered his Cambridge friends, who "found amusement in dressing up as monks", drank the cellar dry, and passed round a cup made from a human skull a gardener had dug up in the grounds — polished, silver-mounted, and celebrated in Byron's own poem Lines Inscribed upon a Cup Formed from a Skull. It was aristocratic monastic fancy-dress, the same game the Hellfire Club had played fifty years earlier.
His sexual life is documented in his own letters, long out of copyright: he desired women and men, and modern scholarship reads him as bisexual. In 1812 he became famous overnight and began a scandalous affair with Lady Caroline Lamb, who called him "mad, bad, and dangerous to know" and is documented to have dressed as a page boy to reach him. The persistent, contemporaneously believed but never-proven rumour that he and his half-sister Augusta Leigh were lovers helped destroy his marriage to Annabella Milbanke — mother of Ada Lovelace — and drove him into exile in 1816. He sold Newstead in 1818 and died in Greece in 1824. The house, his rooms and bed, the gardens and the memorial to his dog Boatswain survive under Nottingham City Council.
More stories at this spot
Sources
- Historic UK
- Visit Nottinghamshire
- Nottingham City of Literature, "Literary Locations #75: Newstead Abbey"
- Nottinghamshire History, "Byron and where he is buried" (1939)
- The American Reader, "28 April 1816: Byron to Annabella Milbanke"
- Wikipedia, "Elizabeth Medora Leigh" (Byron's "not an Ape" letter; paternity rumour)
- London Review of Books, Thomas Jones on Byron (bisexuality; Newstead servants)
- Newstead Abbey Byron Society, Beckett & Aley, "Lord Byron and Newstead" (PDF)
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