Queer Heritage · York, North Yorkshire
Holy Trinity Church, Goodramgate ('birthplace of lesbian marriage')
Where Anne Lister and Ann Walker took the sacrament together to seal their union — widely described as Britain's first lesbian marriage and now commemorated by a blue plaque.
The story
On Easter Sunday, 30 March 1834, Anne Lister and Ann Walker took communion together at this small medieval church down an alley off Goodramgate. They had already exchanged rings; Lister's diary records that she prayed their union would be happy. Neither church nor law had any place for what they were doing, so they made a marriage of it privately and called it one. It is now widely described as the first lesbian marriage in Britain. In July 2018 York Civic Trust erected the country's first permanent rainbow plaque here — and set off a national argument by describing Lister only as a "Gender-nonconforming entrepreneur", with no mention of the word lesbian. A petition started by campaigner Julie Furlong gathered more than 2,500 signatures; in February 2019 the Trust replaced the plaque with one naming her "Lesbian and Diarist", and corrected the rainbow border, which had originally been fixed upside down. The church is in the care of the Churches Conservation Trust and is usually open to visitors; the plaque is visible from the churchyard entrance.
Sources
- Wikipedia
- University of York, Borthwick Institute
- West Yorkshire Archive Service / Calderdale (Catablogue)
- The National Archives, "Anne Lister and Ann Walker's archival legacy"
- UNESCO UK, Memory of the World, Diaries of Anne Lister
- BBC News, "Anne Lister: Reworded York plaque for 'first lesbian'" (2019)
- York Civic Trust, "Anne Lister (1791–1840)"
- The Conversation, "Five lesbian expressions from the 19th century" (on kiss/grubble/cross)
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